Its an important day...

This day needs to be marked, this day will never be forgotten and this day buries all the other days :) Keep it coming, now life is crystal clear!

Does “Happiness” mean we Just Chill?

Doesn't a day on the beach feels a lot better than burning your ass out in the office?  Does that give you real happiness? 

Now when can a person just CHILL all the time? Most likely when you've built up an empire, achieved all sort of material/immaterial happiness and now all that you do is just chill out with nothing on your mind? I wanna know which person is living such kinda life and is that person really happy? 

What makes a person happy? 

Achieving full-fledged happiness and being happy all the time is difficult. Yes it is atleast in this era :(

I feel happy when I am away from the human race? Beaches, sea-side is the place to be according to me. But, what I feel is beaches are more enjoyable when you have accomplished many things before arriving. But, is that possible? 

Happiness is much more than mere recreation or relaxation. 

Material possessions are important to keep one happy. Yes these possessions are awesomely important, largely because they were designed by other people with good ideas and sensibilities according to me. 
But sometimes I wonder, Is it just me who like material stuff? No, of course its not the case. People who talk trash about materialism often love it the most. Don't they?

Wealth is not inherently evil, and hating all rich people is doing yourself a disservice. Love rich people and be rich :)

I have been thinking a lot on the happiness science, trying to understand and achieve it as well!
I’m also just a really happy person, but with little shocks attached to it just like those menopause breaks. The breaks due to life's so called dramatic and real changes. 

Concluding my state from my thinking process, I would call myself a HAPPY human being :)
How did I get so fucking happy? I can barely even say the word happy without “fucking” in front of it.  HAHAHA!

Yes my happiness is just spending some time with myself, with my material possessions, living with my principles and a new wish everyday :) Yes, a day on the beach feels a lot better when I have left behind an image of me in peoples heart, respect, love and most important an impression! It will feel a lot better — ideally, when I’ve built up an empire and my people are happily chilling taking all the pleasures from  my life’s work in my absence while I relax.

Meaning is more important than walking around with a greasy-idiot smile on your face all fucking day. People who pursue happiness directly probably won’t succeed. There’s nothing wrong with money, possessions, and desiring the respect of those whom you respect.

And people who care only about their own happiness don’t deserve any. :)

I don't belong here....

A few comments, a few discussions and knowing people's perspectives on me today made me think again. AGAIN??? Of course that needs to be used coz I think loads. Anyone comes and tells me anything no matter who the hell that person is and how important his/her words are to me, I THINK!

Phew....I don't just think, I take it to the second level to discuss this perspective trying to get others point of view as well. Evaluating, Understanding and Analysis of a perspective is what I feel I am doing but somehow a little corner of my mind tells me why are you doing this? Are you bloody not sure of what the crap is, why discuss? Is it a lack of confidence on my part or I am just passing the time with such kind of entertainment. 

Hmmmm, now I know or rather have decided I won't entertain people such crappy people and their bull-shit comments anymore. GO to hell!

I should just start ignoring all such gossips and be nice to those who are not nice coz thats what makes a person great :) If that is not working, move on coz as humans we need to realise where we belong. I definitely don't belong here.

Time to pack my bags!

Drinking it up.........

There are times when certain people just get on your nerves and seeing them daily right in front of you showing the same sickening stuff that irritates you sets your mind on fire!

I am in that state right now and what am I doing to control myself? Yes have to control, COZ at this point of time I just cant blow it all up, there is a status quo. I am holding on to it, drinking it all up...How do I do that? Shared it with a few friends, abused the person, blew his head off and ignoring him till the day I am in a position to kill him.

Quiet before the storm, and the storm is soon gonna come and this time its gonna show the other side of me. The socially pleasant people too can be secretly dangerous when it comes to principles. 


My principles matter the most to me and I go to any extent to show the unethical selfish people their place. No compromises on that!

Till then, somehow drinking it all up. Yes, its not easy at all!

STATUS update!

On a road less traveled, divided into so many different directions each one shouting out at me - YOU keep your feet on us and we will take your life ahead the right away....I have stopped not moving at all; life and its complications, relations and its inhumanity, people and their expectations have frozen me!

The APPs world & I am trapped :)

While scanning and wandering in the app world today, I suddenly realised how much has the word APP advanced, asserted and assorted my life now. 

There was a time when app was the short form used for application which meant filling those lengthy forms giving all your personal details! May it be opening of a bank account, getting a passport, getting an admission in the school/college or buying a new cell number ...All of these required filling those repetitive lengthy forms. Now, apps are those weird things on your cell phone that keeps you busy all the time and somewhat  intoxicated. 

So, let me take you through some of the APPS that are really cool and must haves on your cell phone to show it off or get trapped!

Lets start off with PHOTOGRAPHY APPs- something that I have in plenty on my phone. From Photofunia, Cartoon Camera, Instagram, Photo Art, Picasa to Beauty Camera I have it all :) I must say these are must haves for photo lovers like me as I keep on taking those random  pics at random places and would always want to look the best!

Second favorite category would  be GAMING APPs- now again I have like 3 extra screens for all games on my phone because me and my niece are completely trapped for an hour or two daily having the best of times in this virtual world.  My favorite Games are Hello Kitty Salon- a game of managing time, tasks & running a business on the go. Then comes Angry birds- now thats a must for everybody now after the popularity and craze all around. Skater Boy, Where's my Water by Disney, Ninja Chicken, Angry Fruit, Yo Ninja, Basketball, Wordsearch and the list is long....The best and funniest timepass to just have a good laugh are Talking Tom and Pierre the Parrot!

The other Category to keep you hooked to your devices are the UTILITY APPs - Now this is one category that I update very single day. I have someone or the other daily coming and suggesting a new one to me. Google Voice- A service that gives you a phone number that can ring to multiple places or devices and it allows you to access all of your voicemail and text messages over the Web. It can make outgoing calls look like they’re coming from your Google Voice number so that you can keep your real mobile number private. Advanced Task Killer- Manage your apps so that they don’t hurt performance or battery life. It even comes with a widget that you can tap once to kill all open apps. Dropbox- Dropbox automatically syncs a folder of files between multiple computers. You can access all your heavy files anytime anywhere from the this magic app.  Easy Battery Saver is also a must have that helps you save your cell's battery and intimate you every now and then. 

The other category I personally use daily is the FINANCIAL MARKET APPs- Moneycontrol Markets on mobile, ET, NDTV Profit, Blue, Instocks, Investar...I have it all just to keep me updated all the time :)

The other MUST HAVES would be - SKYPE, TANGO, GO CHAT, IRCTC Mobile, Book My Show, Indian Rail, Saavn, Indian Recipe Book and the list is long as there is a new icon everyday on the device :)

Yes the APPs world is intoxicating and I would say much better then the real world coz it keeps me busy all the time without any not-needed thoughts on my mind whenever I am free! Happy APPing and do share your favorite apps with the social bee coz as I always say it - Its being social that makes us BETTER HUMANS :P

PS: If you want to download all paid apps for free just download the magic tool APPLANET MARKET on your device and get all your favorite apps for free!

Its people only who make you realise.....

What is the worst thing to be asked from a lady--------------No, I am not playing a quiz here.......Its HER AGE!

I HATE IT! Today, someone did that to me and the guys discussion also made me realise a few things......

Gasp. 

Didn't my birthday just go by? Its ready to come again, oh no I don't wanna grow any much older :( I don’t care about the number attached to my age. I care about the social pressure that comes with it.  The pressure to be responsible, pressure to show maturity, pressure to sound wise and the worst of all pressure to get married. 

Not that I don't possess any of the above traits, have it in plenty but still life at this age is the worst for female species because all people have from you are expectations at this age.....

Handling a new a expectation every single day is quite a tough task. Do you cook? No, lets put it in a better way...Do you know how to cook? OF COURSE I DO, cooking is not a TASK for me at all but still hate people having preoccupied notions about me and cooking. Then there comes, do you have a boyfriend or you want us to look for a partner for you? PHEW, isn't it supposed to be an individuals life. Come on folks, even I know I am growing old and should be married and well settled as the Indian society puts it by now. Now people shouldn't pin-point it every now and then, the decision of marriage is not a joke people. I want to live my life in peace and for that I will decide when, how, where, with whom I will get married OR will NOT get married. Guys, this is still fine there are people who will ask you questions like do you plan to work after marriage???? Haha, let me get married first. Its like everyone wants to know your entire future in one go. swoooooooooooooosh!

Freaking pathetic are times when you prefer to stay away from the social life all because of this.....and yes its damn difficult for a social bee!

So, lets end this angry post with a slice of hope. Yes, I am old - old enough to enter the second phase of my life after being a LOVELY sister, SUPERB daughter, SMART professional and A friend for all to a GOOD MARRIED AUNTYJI.....I will and the time is not far away but I am stilldrawing the sketch of how I see that happening :) 

AND folks please don't ask any lady her age next time coz for you its sometimes just for your information but for the lady it means a lot of pressure-packed thinking................grrrrrr!