What is the worst thing to be asked from a lady--------------No, I am not playing a quiz here.......Its HER AGE!
I HATE IT! Today, someone did that to me and the guys discussion also made me realise a few things......
Gasp.
Didn't my birthday just go by? Its ready to come again, oh no I don't wanna grow any much older :( I don’t care about the number attached to my age. I care about the social pressure that comes with it. The pressure to be responsible, pressure to show maturity, pressure to sound wise and the worst of all pressure to get married.
Not that I don't possess any of the above traits, have it in plenty but still life at this age is the worst for female species because all people have from you are expectations at this age.....
Handling a new a expectation every single day is quite a tough task. Do you cook? No, lets put it in a better way...Do you know how to cook? OF COURSE I DO, cooking is not a TASK for me at all but still hate people having preoccupied notions about me and cooking. Then there comes, do you have a boyfriend or you want us to look for a partner for you? PHEW, isn't it supposed to be an individuals life. Come on folks, even I know I am growing old and should be married and well settled as the Indian society puts it by now. Now people shouldn't pin-point it every now and then, the decision of marriage is not a joke people. I want to live my life in peace and for that I will decide when, how, where, with whom I will get married OR will NOT get married. Guys, this is still fine there are people who will ask you questions like do you plan to work after marriage???? Haha, let me get married first. Its like everyone wants to know your entire future in one go. swoooooooooooooosh!
Freaking pathetic are times when you prefer to stay away from the social life all because of this.....and yes its damn difficult for a social bee!
So, lets end this angry post with a slice of hope. Yes, I am old - old enough to enter the second phase of my life after being a LOVELY sister, SUPERB daughter, SMART professional and A friend for all to a GOOD MARRIED AUNTYJI.....I will and the time is not far away but I am stilldrawing the sketch of how I see that happening :)
AND folks please don't ask any lady her age next time coz for you its sometimes just for your information but for the lady it means a lot of pressure-packed thinking................grrrrrr!
